I feel that i'm just a loser on relationship, beeen together so long and i just cant understand what is he thinking nor i can understand his feeling, all i will do is a selfish thinking, did not spare a thought for him. Who can tell me or guide me how to handle or to maintain a good relationship. i feel that i disappoint him. Sometimes when problem comes i feel like giving up, but on the hand telling me that i cant let go. In truth i really cant let go. Not because of the yrs been together, is the feeling n love is there, but how can i do to have a good relationship. I really don't know.